The proverbial closet doors have been swinging open with abandon in the entertainment world these last couple of months. From “How I Met Your Mother”‘s Jim Parsons to news personality Anderson Cooper, more and more entertainment figures are making public declarations in regards to be sexuality. In a sign of hope for our generation, more and more people are greeting the news with a collective shrug. As it should be. Gone are the days (I hope) when the sexuality of an artist has a bearing on whether their talent is supported.
The latest coming out (of sorts) to make news, however, has turned into a watershed moment for an entire genre. Frank Ocean, successful songwriter (for the likes of Justin Bieber,) member of the controversial Odd Future collective, and singer/songwriter in his own right, recently published an open letter on his Tumblr site, in which he revealed that he had fallen in love with a man several years ago, at the age of 19. Lyrics on his upcoming debut (commercially released) album, Channel Orange, also make reference to bisexuality.
Frank is the first major hip-hop or R&B star to willingly reveal his sexuality in many years. He is certainly the most high-profile black celebrity to come out, ever. While artists like Meshell Ndegeocello and Rahsaan Patterson (more on him in a bit) are also “out”, they don’t reach as young an audience as Frank, and their work (and thus, their audience) is a bit left of mainstream. Although Frank’s not a rapper, he is a major figure in the hip-hop community (that’s his voice you hear all over Jay-Z and Kanye’s Watch The Throne) and the announcement opens the door for acceptance in a largely homophobic section of the musical world. You listened to an Eminem album lately? In hip-hop (and in large sections of the African-American community) homosexuality or bisexuality is seen as shameful. Whether due to Biblical teachings or the hyper-masculinity that is a hallmark of Black culture, to be open about having had relationships with someone of the same sex (if you’re a man) automatically makes you “soft” or a sissy, or not as much of a man. You can’t be legit if you’re gay. Frank’s announcement (as well as comments by the likes of Jay-Z and Kanye West) should go a long way towards kicking those doors down.
And it’s about time. Obviously, this announcement resonates with me because I am a gay black man that considers himself part of the hip-hop community and has largely felt excluded or shunned by his people (that actually has much less to do with my sexuality than just being seen as “different” but that’s another article.) I can almost guarantee you that a good chunk of the folks who do this kind of ostracizing are dealing with the same struggle themselves. While Cooper’s or Parsons’ announcements should be sort of shrugged off (in large part because neither’s coming out is a big surprise,) Ocean’s reveal is a watershed cultural moment that will hopefully lead to a day when similar announcements are equally shrugged off.
Here’s some music for ya…the aforementioned Rahsaan Patterson giving props to Mr. Ocean.
8 comments
Angela says:
Jul 6, 2012
It would be great to start hearing rap music move away from the homophobia that sadly runs rampant in many songs. Add in cutting out the misogyny, and I’d be really interested to see how both changes would affect future rap songs.
Good for Frank for opening up as he did. I hope his words are taken to heart by all who read his comments.
Drew says:
Jul 7, 2012
I was hoping you’d weigh in on this, sir – this one did not disappoint.
As for homophobia in the hip-hop/r&b community, it’s been there for a while, but I think there are glimmers of hope – Frank’s announcement is huge, obviously, and in recent years his Watch the Throne cohorts Jay-Z and Kanye have been increasingly vocal about their support for gay rights. Considering how swiftly the genre turns its back on people who aren’t disgusted by it, and considering their high profile, I think that’s an immense step forward.
blerd says:
Jul 7, 2012
I would agree with you. It’s the start of a change.
John says:
Jul 8, 2012
Frank’s vocals on “Made in America” were a highlight for me off Watch the Throne, so he was already on my radar. But more than just being out, I think as someone who works behind the scenes as well as front and center, Ocean will be able to stand up to artists who fling slurs around in their lyrics without thinking about it and say “that’s not cool.” When you’ve got Tyler, the Creator coming out and supporting him publicly, that’s a big deal.
Gonzo says:
Jul 10, 2012
I applaud Frank’s public statement. But I wonder how he reconciles a close working relationship with Tyler, the Creator who has made so many blatantly homophobic public remarks.
blerd says:
Jul 10, 2012
On Twitter, Tyler came out in support. It’s a pretty weak excuse, but I think it’s quite possible that Tyler only makes those type of outlandish statements for shock value.
ghostfacemillah says:
Jul 10, 2012
I would also add that it matters because he focused on the experience, rather than how he identifies. I find it much more interesting that he’s seemingly not adhering to the strict binary view of sexuality (i.e. you’re either gay or straight). Maybe he does identify as gay, I don’t know – but the fact that he left it open could (read: should) foster more conversations on sexuality in general. Maybe he’s gender queer, maybe he’s bi – in the end, it doesn’t matter as it relates to him as a person, but it’d be great for a public figure to ignite a dialogue on sexuality (or even the fluidity of sexuality) between folks who might never have considered other options before.
Especially because Kanye is on record for saying something to the extent of there’s no such thing as a bisexual man, just one who hasn’t realized he’s gay yet. But maybe that’s just Kanye and his word vomit…
blerd says:
Jul 11, 2012
I wanted to work that into the article somehow. He didn’t actually “come out.” He said that his first love was a man. BIG difference. It COULD mean he’s gay. It could also mean he’s bi. Unlike Kanye (ha) I don’t believe that most people are 100% straight or 100% gay. Some are, but most fall somewhere in between. Many (MANY) of my “straight” friends have admitted to having bisexual experiences, and I guarantee that another percentage has had them and won’t admit it. Yet another (perhaps bigger) percentage has thought about it but not acted on it. I do think a dialogue on the fluidity of sexuality needs to be had.
(BTW–the term “queer” makes me throw up in my mouth. Not a knock on you. Just saying.)
God, I love Kanye, but sometimes, yeah…the word vomit. He’s got a good heart, but his words can be clumsy sometimes.